To Sacred to give away freely

One of the most impotant thing anyone can have in their possesion is their purity, their virginity, or as Monica from friends likes to call it, their flower.

This is something God set aside for marriage, between a man and woman, as in husband and wife, Genesis 2:24;.

Some may feel its ok to go around sleeping with people, or only sleep with someone if they truly love that person. But I say that if you really love some one and want to make that kind of commitment then you might as well get married (unless your only marrying them to get them to bed, which is wrong). Also if you do sleep with others then eventually get married, what do you have to share with your husband or wife that you haven't shared with other people.

Your husband/wife should be able to stand before your ex boyfriends/girlfriends and say ,
"You may have dated him/her before me but I know a deeper part of him/her that you didn't get to experience, you got the temporary I got the eternal."

Don't be in such a rush to do what the world is telling you that you should do. Think about it, if everyone waitied until they got married before they slept with some one and they stayed faithful to that person, there wouldn't be all these STD's roaming around the earth. All these things are a consiquence of mans lack of self control and disobiedience to the Word.

My body is the Lord's temple and im not going to let just anyone gain access to it. Their is only one key to opening the door to this temple and thats an "I do*" ring not an "I will**" ring (see bottom for explaination).

I encourage you to keep a sign on your temple door saying 'Private, No Access' until the right time comes along.
And if someone has already gained access then I encourage you to close the door and put the sign up, look to God and ask for His forgiveness and when he gives it, you'll be made pure again.


* An "I do" ring is the ring you get when you get married. The minister says '...do you take...' and you say 'I do'.

** An "I will" ring is the ring you your engagement ring. The guy says '...will you marry me...' and the girl says 'I will.'